Mon, 1 April 2019
So often when I’m working with clients they share the list of things they’d love to make happen in their lives….. closely followed by all of the excuses for why they cannot start. Often the excuse list can be boiled down to one short phrase, “The timing is not perfect.”
If this is you, I hate to break it to you but, as for perfect timing….…there is no such thing!
If you want to live and lead for impact, you’ve got to know this to your core! If not, you’ll waiting a long time for your impact and so will the world!
I have a good friend who is a project manager for a large, international company. They pull the best of the best of the best to work on their projects….the best minds, best talent, best resources from across the world. And, even they have never found the perfect time or had the perfect launch.
I look back on my life and there were MANY times when I just pushed forward rather than pressing pause when timing was far from perfect and I can say with certainty I have no regret about starting when I did for any of them
For instance, I remember deciding to write my first book.
At the time, I knew nothing about writing or publishing. I didn’t even know how many words or 8 ½ x 11 pages in a Word document would equal enough pages for a book. I had to call a friend who’d recently had a book published through Wiley, Corey Perlman. I asked him….so, how do you know when you have enough content?
He shared the number of words he’d been given as a goal and the number he’d ended up with. Based on the information he shared, I decided I’d celebrate as soon as I hit 25,000 words. When I did and still had plenty more to write about I knew I had a book!
I still had a lot more to figure out beyond the word count too: Self Publish or look for a traditional publisher, editing, covers, formatting, indexing and more.
I was also a single mom with 2 young boys. None of this made it the optimal time.
So, I just started. I didn’t focus on any of the end of project tasks and instead just made a commitment to get up every morning at 5:30 AM to write.
My first book came out in 2010, the next, 2012, then 2016 and 2017. And, each time it has gotten easier and easier because I’ve learned so much along the way that I wouldn’t have if I hadn’t just started.
Similarly, when I was part of a team starting a ministry we talked about delaying launch until we did some more research, tweaked a bit more. But, the truth was, there really wasn’t more to learn from research. Many of our questions could only be answered by doing. There would never be a perfect time.
And then when I think about starting my coaching business almost 15 years ago. Talk about not the perfect time…and yet, I’ve loved every minute of it and know that I’ve positively impacted so many people and companies.
I started that business on the heels of an abusive marriage! I’d spent years being berated and told I was worthless, lazy and a sham. I was about to be a new single mom and had no family support. The income from my new business needed to support myself and two young boys.
My ducks weren’t in a row, they were all over the place!
And, yet….I started. I had spoken to a few trusted advisors in my life and they had helped me identify my unique abilities. I took a self study course, created a business name and website and launched!
A couple of years ago I added a second business as an extra income source. It’s well aligned with what I was already doing and I loved that I would have the chance to spend time with motivated, goal-oriented people, something that I miss, at times, while working for myself.
My kids were both going through major health challenges. Once again, it was not the optimal time to launch a new endeavor or meet a new team. But….I jumped.
These are just a few examples. I’m sure I could share more. But you get it.
I can tell you that in not one instance do I regret moving forward during a time when things were far from perfect.
And, I know I’ve made an impact on this world each time I moved past discomfort to start or create a new something when it wasn’t the perfect time.
What if I’d robbed the world of my impact while I waited for all the stars to align?
What have you been pressing pause on? Is it something for you, your family or your health? Maybe it’s something you’d like to learn or train for, a trip you’d like to take. Is there a new business on your brain?
Whatever it is just start! The Perfect time will never happen. Why is today’s barrier to perfection any worse than the one you’ll have tomorrow?
Don’t rob the world of your plan, don’t rob your life of your plan.
To what will you commit to today to put your plan in action?
Today commit to taking the first step and tomorrow take one more. Before you know it you’ll be well on your way and looking back with a feeling of satisfaction and a smile. Impact made or lessons learned. Either way a life enriched by a chance you took.
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