Thu, 7 March 2019
Wrestling with Fatherhood
Matt Woodrum, married, with 3 daughters, is passionate about sending a call out to men to understand the value that they bring to their families. As someone who grew up without a dad and worked within the prison system, Matt has seen firsthand how growing up without a dad can negatively affect our children.
Matt is equipping men to become their kid’s biggest hero. To often men minimize their value.
Matt found his motivation from his childhood.
As a small illustration of the kind of life he had as a toddler, Matt shares that his first words were Scooby Doo.
Matt was removed from his home and adopted out when he was 4 years old because he had been abused. The man he called father committed suicide when he was 7. He did not have a good role model after that.
He credits his wife who, when they first met, encouraged him, telling him that he had a great future and could design it. She also believed in him and his ability to do well in school when he felt like a failure.
As an adult he worked in a prison ministry and learned that 88% of men who were incarcerated did not have good father figures growing up.
And, then he worked with women in prison teaching anger management and learned of the heartache so many had felt from treatment from men.
He knew that men needed to step up, do better and understand the value they could bring by living to higher standards.
Next steps include Mastermind groups for men where they will find a community to lock arms with so they can encourage, uplift one another and hole one another accountable to exceptional standards.
Matt often struggles with not feeling good enough or questions how in the world someone with his background could ever be equipped to help men be great fathers and husbands. He has no role model himself. But, his wife is always there with words of encouragement and this keeps him going.
Matt knows that with a history like his he could either think poor me and use it as an excuse to do nothing with his life or, he could turn his trials into his testimony.